Loving Yoni

The blog

Everything we have published, grouped by the thread it belongs to. Nothing here is dated, because none of it goes out of date.

The yoni egg guide

Start here. The stone itself, a four week sequence to begin with, and the practice as it opens out over time.

  • What is a yoni egg?

    The stone, the word, and what actually happens in a session. Everything a woman needs before her first yoni egg practice, without the hype.

  • What a yoni egg practice gives you

    What women actually describe after months of practice, from sensation and awareness to steadiness and confidence, and roughly how long each tends to take.

  • Choosing your first yoni egg

    Jade or rose quartz, which size to begin with, drilled or undrilled, and how to recognise a seller worth buying from. Everything to settle before you order.

  • Nephrite jade

    Why nephrite is the traditional first stone, how it behaves in practice, how to recognise the genuine material, and what it asks in the way of care.

  • The rose quartz yoni egg

    What rose quartz offers, how it differs from jade in the hand and in practice, who tends to be drawn to it, and the care a softer stone appreciates.

  • Yoni egg sizes and progression

    Which size to begin with, why smaller is harder rather than easier, when a change genuinely makes sense, and how progression works over a long practice.

  • How to insert and remove a yoni egg

    The practical mechanics nobody explains. Which end first, what to use for glide, how removal actually works, and what to do if your body says not today.

  • Yoni egg care and sterilizing

    Sterilizing in boiling water, what to use between sessions, how to store your egg, and the extra care softer stones like rose quartz appreciate.

  • Yoni egg exercises

    A four week sequence for a first practice, then the full library grouped by what each movement builds. Everything from your first session onward.

  • Advanced yoni egg practices

    Upright work, walking practice, sound, extended sessions and energy circulation. Where the practice goes once the basics have become second nature.

  • 4 fun yoni egg exercises for the busy woman

    Four short practices for weeks with no free hour in them. None takes more than ten minutes, and none require a candlelit room or an empty house.

The body

Pelvic floor, sensation and sexuality. The anatomy underneath the practice, described without clinical distance.

  • The pelvic floor, plainly explained

    What the pelvic floor actually is, the work it does all day, how it moves with the breath, and why range matters more here than raw strength.

  • The perineal lift

    One movement, taught properly. The perineal lift, the squeeze and hold and release technique, and its connection to the root chakra and a settled nervous system.

  • Squeeze, hold, release

    The three parts of every pelvic movement, why the release deserves the most attention of the three, and how to practise each one properly.

  • Kegels and yoni eggs

    What kegels train, what a yoni egg practice adds, why feedback changes everything, and how to work with both so the whole range stays available.

  • Breathwork for the pelvis

    How breath and the pelvic floor move together, why most women breathe too high in the body, and four practices that change what the pelvis can feel.

  • Understanding sexuality

    Desire that went quiet, and what tends to bring it back. Sexual energy, pelvic floor muscles, and the honest relationship between sensation and arousal.

  • When sensation has gone quiet

    Numbness is far more common than women realise, and it responds to practice. Why the body turns the volume down, and how sensation tends to come back.

  • Yoni eggs and emotional release

    Why old feeling surfaces during practice, what women describe when it moves, and how to hold a session when something arrives you were not expecting.

  • What yoni massage opens

    What yoni massage is, what a session involves, how it differs from dearmoring, and what women tend to describe in the days afterward.

  • Yoni dearmoring and tantra massage

    What yoni dearmoring is, how it differs from tantra massage, what a session actually involves, and how to choose a practitioner worth trusting.

  • Sacred dearmoring and the yoni egg

    What sacred dearmoring is, what it asks of a woman, and why guided work and solo practice tend to reinforce each other rather than compete.

  • Yoni steaming

    What yoni steaming is, the herbs traditionally used, how to set one up properly at home, and where it fits alongside the rest of your practice.

  • Yoni care through your cycle

    How practice changes across the four phases of the cycle, what the body tends to want in each, and a simple routine that works with the rhythm.

  • Practising after birth

    How the practice changes after childbirth, why the map is different, which size tends to suit, and how to come back to your body without rushing.

Energy and spirit

The wider ground the practice sits in. Working with the stone, with the chakras, with yourself, and with other women.

  • 5 ways to energetically clear and charge your yoni egg

    Moonlight, sound, breath, earth and intention. Five ways to clear and charge your yoni egg, when to do each, and how the ritual shapes the practice itself.

  • Healing the sacral chakra

    The centre that governs feeling, creativity and flow sits exactly where the practice happens. Signs it has closed, and how to work with it in the body.

  • Self love: the greatest gift

    Self love as something you do rather than something you feel. What it looks like in practice, why it resists affirmations, and where a body practice comes in.

  • Women's empowerment circles and 5 reasons you should join one

    What actually happens in a women's circle, five reasons women keep going back, and how to tell a good one from an evening you will not repeat.

  • Soul gazing 101

    Sustained eye contact, held in stillness. How to practise it with a partner or alone in a mirror, and what usually happens in the first three minutes.

  • Creating a practice space

    How to make a small space for practice, what belongs on an altar, and how to set an intention that shapes a session without becoming a demand.

  • Divine feminine awakening

    What the phrase actually points at, how the process tends to unfold over years rather than weekends, and why it begins in the body rather than in belief.

  • Feminine embodiment

    Embodiment as a daily practice rather than an idea. What living in the body means, the small habits that build it, and where to begin.

  • Sacred sexuality for women

    What the term actually means, how it differs from ordinary sexual advice, the practices involved, and how solo work builds the ground it rests on.

  • Womb wisdom and inner listening

    Why the body answers before the mind does, what inner listening actually involves, and how to build the habit of consulting it before deciding.

  • The lineage of the yoni egg

    Where the practice comes from, why jade carried such meaning, how women's knowledge travelled without being written down, and how it reached us.